She wrote, "When I grow old , I shall wear purple and a red hat that doesn't suit."
If you were a teenager in 1961 you would understand the fashion constraints of the time, the inequality, the class consciousness and the oppression of "know your place/station" mentality". It was a time in Australia where some people thought they were more equal than others, especially if their parents or grandparents had owned land, (even if they lost it) and this landowner attitude seeped into the snobbishness of class. You were judged by your clothes, matching hat and gloves, matching shoes and handbag, and where you lived, and your occupation. Not to mention your religion and heritage.
Needless to say, if there was a "touch of the tar"- a hint of aboriginal ancestry, you were never going to be accepted. You would never be invited to be a Deb... never a Debutante.
I experienced this same oppression of class just few years ago, when an older "friend" said I had no "right" to own a Mercedes. I should stick to my "station".(class) She reminded me that I was bought up in a working class family and I should know my place. I asked her how much her car cost, and she replied $26,000.00 I reminded her that my old Mercedes sedan only cost $5,000.00
Nevertheless I still had no right to own it! I thought by going to university, teaching and running my own businesses would make me more equal, but it didn't, not in her eyes, but it did in mine.
Here is my own take on that idea of rebelling in your old age.
30.4.12
Camouflage
When I grow old, I
won't wear purple,
or a hat of orange or
red,
I will do more than
rock the establish-ment.
I won't wear twinsets
in mauve or grey,
I will wear whatever I
may.
I won't have blue or
mauve rinse
in my white, white
hair,
or wear muted hue,
or care if I'm fat, or
try to please you.
When I grow old
I will wear animal
print,
I'll wear leopard with
tiger frill
and they'll all wonder
but won't see me, when
I stand still.
I'll be known by my
prints
of zebra, black and
white,
and some days I'll wear
clashing rings in
colours bright.
I'll buy a little sport's car,
and whizz down the
street,
and nearly run over,
whoever I meet.
But I'll still be the
same,
the same me within
just cloaked and
crinkled,
hidden, in wrinkled old
skin.